Unconditional Love

Mathias Sager
4 min readJul 5, 2019

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Love often is mentioned as the most important ingredient in life. Despite being considered the greatest energy in the world, it’s one of the least understood powers too.

Who and what one is not aware of, one cannot love; and which is not loved, one is not properly aware of. A readiness to love is necessary for it being expressed and recognized.

If not made explicitly aware, the emergence of love occasionally appears quite arbitrary. Awareness Intelligence along with the dimensions of the different social relations and time as visualized by the socio-temporal matrix, invites love to arise more likely and both more specifically and more broadly. Real love is unconditional. Real love does not seek to get; its reward is to give, while even this opportunity is unconditionally unexpected. By awareness-intelligently knowing how to arrange relations and time to establish transaction-free relationships, for example through staying in the inter-present without past resentments and future expectations, love becomes a genuine expression of the soul.

There are different types of love, and there is romance. “Romance is tempestuous. Love is calm.” as a Mason Cooley’s aphorism goes. The different levels of love along the Awareness Intelligence modes build on each other harmoniously. Love is the light, the awaring appreciation of source energy, the socio-temporally infinite holy quality of pure life.

Only if you see this source of love in you, you will find it in others too.

Noticing others’ loving energy causes strong emotions of affection and attraction to them. Love is of lower quality if there is a shortage of awareness about everybody’s access to the same source of love. The extension of empathy to all souls, whether they have the Awareness Intelligence to express it too or not, enables compassion. The compassion of the extra-past in that sense is the knowing that at the core of all human expression is the identical love that we’ve discovered in our intra-past and that we joyfully yet without attachment experience in our affectionate inter-present encounters and relationships.

Love the people for who they really are, not for what they allegedly used to be, or for what they supposedly are expected to become, do, or have in the future. Un-condition yourself, learn a new language of love that is free from beliefs based on stories you have adopted. With Awareness Intelligence it’s possible to disrupt the conditioning into misbelieves and to unlearn unhealthy habits. Trace back your story to where it started, all back to the only origin of truth there is. Express your language of respect by letting others become who they really are too.

Find and deliberate your purpose based on such unconditional tenderness. That’s all you are. And you are it all. You do not love. You are love. Unconditionally.

So far:

Chapter 1 — Life’s introduction of Awareness Intelligence

Chapter 2 — The awarenessland of Awaria

Chapter 3 — Your life that is humantime

Chapter 4 — Consciousness, awareness, and social intelligence

Chapter 5 — Broadening the social scope

Chapter 6 — Increasing the attention span

Chapter 7 — Distraction of the mass

Chapter 8 — Missing systematics and links in science

Chapter 9 — Spiritual consumerism and mystification of spiritualism

Chapter 10 — Expanding the here and now

Chapter 11 — Individual revolution, human evolution

Chapter 12 — Mental coordinate system

Chapter 13 — Ignorance is not bliss

Chapter 14 — Awareness Intelligence is learnable

Chapter 15 — The difference between Awareness Intelligence and Emotional Intelligence

Chapter 16 — Technology and the distributed intelligence of the mind

Chapter 17 — The choice to be part of something bigger

Chapter 18/19 — The structure and dimensions of life: The socio-temporal matrix (three tenets of Awareness Intelligence)

Chapter 20 — The Intra-past

Chapter 21 — The Inter-present

Chapter 22 — The Extra-future

Chapter 23 — Full awareness and pure thoughts for coherent meaning

Chapter 24 — The three awareness sparring partners

Chapter 25 — The joy of being, doing, and becoming

Chapter 26 — Learning to die during a lifetime

Chapter 27 — Physical spacelessness and spatial mentalness

Chapter 28 — The law of creation: Intuition, intention, and imagination

Chapter 29 — Energy and the illusionary objectification of life

Chapter 30 — Body, mind, soul

Chapter 31 — Trialistic harmony, not dualistic balance

Chapter 32 — A tripartite world that works in triplets

Chapter 33 — Triadic philosophies and wisdoms

Chapter 34 — Think thrice

Chapter 35 — Circumthinking

Coming next:

Chapter 37 — Timeless Humankindism

— In love for my daughter Natalie and all children of this world. —

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Mathias Sager
Mathias Sager

Written by Mathias Sager

Awareness Intelligence research and application since 1975. It’s humantime. www.mathias-sager.com, goodthings@mathias-sager.com. Thanks and all the best!

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